新西兰华人社团系列之4 不是侨社不团结，是部分侨领不团结
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" id="js_content" style="outline: 0px; color: var(--weui-FG-HALF); font-size: var(--articleFontsize); overflow: hidden; text-align: justify; position: relative; z-index: 0;"><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 14pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); box-sizing: border-box !important;">不是侨社不团结，是部分侨领不团结</strong><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">从事社团事务的人都知道，每一个社团都有社团的宗旨，阐明社团存在的意义，社团的宗旨，发展目标。<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在社团起步阶段，大家同舟共济，团结一致，互帮互助，一团和气，确实体现了社团的存在的目的和意义，也实践了社团最初的宗旨。</strong>随着时间延续，社团会务工作持续展开，社团会员越来越多，理事会规模就会扩大，慢慢地，主要社团负责人起初的客套和热情渐渐消失，每一个人的真实的个性全部流露在社团工作中， 如何维护良好的社团主要负责人之间关系 就会有人际关系，关系到社团会务能否健康地发展，是一个很重要的课题。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 24px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" data-imgfileid="504838985" data-ratio="0.6398148148148148" data-s="300,640" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/PUS8uPDk4HOzVib9N4vjSVffcXibNmQExdG6K3bVR5cQxtWtGkrQeGX6plnrA2CvnLibxB84oN9HRUqRIUNnbZTDA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1080" data-original-style="" data-index="0" _width="677px" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/PUS8uPDk4HOzVib9N4vjSVffcXibNmQExdG6K3bVR5cQxtWtGkrQeGX6plnrA2CvnLibxB84oN9HRUqRIUNnbZTDA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" __sec_open_place_holder__="true" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: bottom; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">无论是公司， 企事业单位，社团机构，人际关系是任何机构运作的关键因数，</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">尤其是主要负责人之间的关系更是核心因数之一。海外华人社团会务是否健康运作与社团内部主要负责人之间关系是否融洽息息相关。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在各种各样的人事关系中，有不同意见和观点是很正常的，</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有矛盾也是很正常的，有</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">矛盾不可怕，怕的是不知道如何协调不同观点，如何解决分歧的意见，</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如何包容，妥协，如何</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">缓和紧张局面，如何解决矛盾。</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有的</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">社团内部主要人员关系融洽，这个社团的会务工作就会得心应手地顺利开展，体现在社团内部工作顺畅，会务欣欣向荣，社团展现出很强的凝聚力和吸引力，社团人数不断扩充，不仅社团内部工作开展顺利，而且社团对外联络也开展的有声有色。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">对外联络包括了四个方面的工作：第一是与新西兰当地的其它华人社团的互动联系，在举办各种活动中，邀请其它社团参与互动或者接受其它社团邀请参加活动。第二是与新西兰相关政府机构之间的互动，包括了国会议员，地方政府议员，行政官员的互动，第三是与中国驻新西兰使领馆的互动。第四是与中国国内有关机构包括国务院侨办，中国侨联以及各级省市侨办，侨联，以及国内相关经济，贸易相关机构如商务部，商务厅机构的互动。一个社团，如果内部主要负责人有工作能力， 有社团情怀，而且主要负责人之间团结一致，这个社团会务就会蒸蒸日上，会务兴荣，就会有效地团结会员，这个社团不仅为会员们锦上添花，雪中送炭，而且会<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">促进新中两国的 经济，文化的交流和人民的友好往来，为新中两国关系添砖加瓦，贡献力量。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; 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max-width: 100%; vertical-align: bottom; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有的海外社团主要负责人之间有矛盾，因为矛盾造成社团内部的派系，主要社团负责人之间纷争，甚至导致某些主要负责人退出社团，造成社团分裂，有些人将社团内部纷争告到国内各级侨办，侨联，或驻地华人使领馆，有些社团内部矛盾激化，诉诸法律，对薄公堂，弄得两败俱伤，这是多么遗憾与悲哀的局面。内部不团结的社团的会务势必走下坡路，社团丧失凝聚力，人员减少，渐渐地，这个社团失去了没有活力，没有活动， <strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这种社团名存实亡，新西兰华人社区不乏这种社团</strong>， 以前有，现在有，将来也会有。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">中国侨联副主席乔卫在</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2016</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Times New Roman"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">年庆祝中国侨联成立六十周年纪念大会的专题报告会上指出</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“ <span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">很多人说海外华人社团不团结，在我看来，不是社团不团结，而是社团内部的部分侨领不团结</span>” <span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">他高度概括海外华人侨社的本质问题。</span></span></span></span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Times New Roman"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不团结的海外华人社团所散发出的信息造成了不好的社会负面影响，不仅在海外华人社会的华人社区，也在当地主流社会的媒体上造成负面影响， 这显然与海外华人社团成立初衷，宗旨相违背的。一般而言， 社团内部纷争来自三个方面：社团领导人权利之争；社团领导人个性迥异，意气行事；社团运作理念不同。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">社团领导人权利之争引发的社团内部纷争</strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">社团的章程对社团负责人都有明文规范负责人的期限， 比如说协会会长或主席，副会长，秘书长任期三年，可以连任一届，或者不能连任， 理事会理事任期三年，可以连任等等， 在社团注册的<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">政府监管</strong>机构对章程这一方面的规范比较严格。可是社团相关负责人并不按照社团章程规定进行社团负责人的更换或者连任，只要在章程规定的框架下进行负责人的变更，连任都是无可厚非的， 新一代从事海外华人社团工作人士应当积极拥抱健康的社团领导人的竞选机制，尤其是生活在西方自由民主国家的华人社团人士，对社团领导人的竞争机制应当驾轻就熟，热情拥抱，体现出新一代海外华人华侨的精神面貌和高文化素养的特点。作者在今年四月发表过《拥抱健康的社团领导人的竞选机制》，较为详细叙述这一方面的观点和看法，这里不再重复。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">社团领导人个性迥异，意气行事引发社团内部纷争</strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">社团的成立，发展，到成熟是一个热情体现，个性磨合，再到协商，包容，忍让，妥协，理解的过程。主要<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">社团领导人的志同道合，三观一致</strong>是的社团会务行稳致远的最佳搭配，可是当初社团成立时候，社团领导人之间往往缺乏深刻了解，如同青年男女谈恋爱阶段，激情，热情战胜了理智和远虑，社团就很快成立了，天长日久，热情退去，剩下的就是赤裸裸的个性流露，如何协调不同的社团领导人个性，包容，妥协，求同存异是对社团领导人的考验，成熟的人，有涵养的人之间的不同观点自然比较容易协调沟通和理解。三观不同的人，很难取得一致的意见，价值观迥异无法共事也是显而易见的。和舒服的人在一起是养生，和聪明的人在一起是养脑，和有趣的人在一起是养心，和漂亮的人一起是养颜，和三观不同的在一起共事是慢性自杀。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 24px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" data-imgfileid="504838987" data-ratio="0.7490740740740741" data-s="300,640" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/PUS8uPDk4HOzVib9N4vjSVffcXibNmQExdM6nkann5krt9bk0ic6Wjib1hI97u0VUlJ3wFib0LtjflKlHumJicmuC4Gw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1080" data-original-style="" data-index="2" _width="677px" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/PUS8uPDk4HOzVib9N4vjSVffcXibNmQExdM6nkann5krt9bk0ic6Wjib1hI97u0VUlJ3wFib0LtjflKlHumJicmuC4Gw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&from=appmsg" __sec_open_place_holder__="true" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: bottom; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; font-size: 12pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一般而言，与工作同事关系良好的人，家庭关系和谐的人士，在社团事务中也会体现出其一致的包容的个性，容易相处的个人品质，有利于社团会务的开展。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; font-size: 12pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 反之，脾气暴躁，个性张扬，爱慕虚荣，心胸狭隘的人， 不仅在工作场所的人际关系处理不好， 其个性也会反映在家庭关系上和社团会务中。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; font-size: 12pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 培养和选拔社团主要领导人除了考察其对社团有没有热情，和个人脾气，还必须考察其在工作场所的人际关系，家庭关系的质量。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; font-size: 12pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;">本文无意讨论社团人士在其生意场所或工作场所或家庭中的关系，而是想说明，在社团初期的热情消退之后， 接踵而至的人事关系是赤裸裸的个性的体现。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; font-size: 12pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> 我们都经常提到：</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; font-size: 12pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">江山易改本性难移</strong>， 个人的秉性，品质基本是一致地体现在社团事务中，工作和生意场所里和家庭关系中的。</span><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在社团主要负责人的选拔中，如有可能，应该考察了解候选人如何处置公司同事或者生意场所合作伙伴的关系， 如何处置家庭的婚姻关系以及家庭兄弟姐妹和教会弟兄姐妹关系，人的个性难改，<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">知彼知己</strong>是很有益处的。归根到底就是考察社团负责人的人品问题，这对将来社团人士关系的发展和社团负责人之间相处有着重要的关系， 影响深远。当热情退却，所剩的就是赤裸裸的人的个性的品质问题，而一个人品质问题会一致地体现在社会的各个领域。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">社团运作理念不同引发社团内部纷争</strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; text-indent: 0.49cm; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">时光荏苒，物换星移，社团工作是社会工作，是人事关系的体现，计划不如变化快，<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">社会在变，工作在变，人也在变</strong>，对一个社团而言，进进出出社团的人很多，有的社团已经销声匿迹，有的社团依然活泼，充满活力，关键是看人。社团是否长久存在，充满活力，关键是看有没有几个志同道合的核心人物，个人力量太单薄，无法维持一个社团的长久运作，需要有一个团队，一批人的齐心协力。求大同存小异，维护社团的名声，组织活动，有力出力，有钱出钱，不计较个人得失，不计名利，从事社团工作的人，绝大部分都是付出，付出时间付出金钱，都是奉献。但是如何经营和运作一个社团，不同的社团负责人却有不同的看法和理念，不同社团经营运作理念引发社团内部纷争也经常存在新西兰华人社团中。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; text-indent: 0.49cm; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Times New Roman"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">社团能否长期保持初衷，按照社团原来的宗旨来进一本发展，对海外华人社团是一个考验，也是社团能否进一步发展壮大的关键。随着社团工作的持续深入，时光飞逝，长期担任要职的社团领袖很容易忘记当初结社的初衷。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不忘初心，方得始终</span></strong>” <span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">是当下流行的口号，细想一下，觉得很有道理，能否记住当初最根本的社团宗旨，对未来社团的发展很关键，做社团初心是是来交朋友，来互相帮助，共同发展，<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">雪中送碳，锦上添花</strong>，绝不是不是来结怨树敌，来拉帮结派打击异己，而是来营造优势互补的平台，不是来拉帮结派，与人争锋的场所。</span></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); box-sizing: border-box !important;">“</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不识庐山真面目，只缘身在此山中</span>” <span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">，长期从事社团事务的人，有可能陷在社团的人和事的事务中，很容易忘记我们做社团的初衷，从而纠缠在不必要的人事纠纷中，各人的脾气，秉性都会在事务合作当中体现，<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我们应当彼此鼓励，提醒，以宽厚的心，宽容的心态，接纳新事物，新思维，新人事，以社团发展为重，求大同存小异，不计较自己个人得失。社团才会健康持续的发展。</strong></span></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></strong><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">铁打的营盘流水的兵，是来形容部队的特点，何尝不是描述海外华人社团的情况呢。一个人担任会长，副会长，主席，副主席，秘书长等职务几年后换届选举，换了另外一个会长，主席，每个人都有自己的特点，优势，都会以不同的方式，从不同的方面来为社团出力，添砖加瓦，会长，主席在沦替，社团一直在继续，人过留名，雁过留声，对社团有贡献的人，不论是会长，主席，还是副会长，秘书长，副秘书长或其他职务，会员们都会铭记在心。对社团不利的事情，伤害的事情，会员们也不会轻易忘记，几年之后还会时时谈起，社团的历史记录着不同的人和事。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 24px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">回归简单就是社团工作的智慧</strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Times New Roman"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", serif; font-size: 14pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">简单就是美，学会从复杂回归简单是社团工作和生活，是处理人事关系的一种智慧。</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">本来很简单的事，思维复杂的人会感到很困扰，纠结，会将简单的事复杂化。社团领导人之间的纷争，导致理事和会员们出现选边站的现象，是很不健康的局面，给社团的理事，会员带来困扰和纠结，最简单的办法，就是置身纷争事外，以简单的心态，支持社团的最初宗旨的活动。思想复杂。社团领导人之间意见有分有合，经过一段磨合，最终出现求大同存小异的和解局面，可是在纷争的风头浪尖中喧嚣的其他人，岂不是很尴尬。</span></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">以简单的心态，置身纷争外，支持社团的最初宗旨，支持社团事务是有智慧的处事原则。中国有句话，聪敏反被聪敏误，回归简单就是智慧。苏东波有一首诗词：</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(15, 15, 15); background: rgb(240, 239, 226); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">人皆养子望聪明，我被聪明误一生。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(176, 8, 21); background: rgb(240, 239, 226); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">惟愿孩儿愚且鲁，无灾无难到公卿。或许会给我们一些启发。</span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Times New Roman"; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">据统计，</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">新西兰华人社团</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;">436</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">个</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">，涵盖了各种各样的华人社团， 有同乡会，联谊会，也有商会，各行业协会，运动爱好协会， 各个地区中老年华人协会，都在不同层面开展华人互相关心，互相帮助，报团取暖的工作，</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">新西兰华人大约</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;">30</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">万</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">，</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">按照</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;">436</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">华人社团分部， 大约</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei", serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;">700</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">个华人会有一个华人社团</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">，社团多自然是好事， 说明新西兰华人互助友爱多，活动多。维持社团内部主要负责人的良好关系是能否发挥社团为新西兰华人提供优质服务平台的问题。新西兰有很多生机勃勃，团结向上，会务兴旺的社团，也有一些内部矛盾严峻，问题很多的华人社团，在此笔者衷心希望所有新西兰华人社团负责人们求大同存小异，着眼未来，以社团发展的大局为重，丢弃小我着眼社团大格局，为新西兰华人社团的健康发展，为新西兰和中国的文化交流，经贸往来，两个国家的友好关系作出贡献。</span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; 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max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;">6</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">月</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;">20</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">日奥克兰</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">作者社团经历介绍</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">：</span></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">现任新西兰中国科技经济促进会副会长</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">现任新西兰福建高校校友联合总会执行会长</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">现任世界福州十邑同乡总会副会长</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0cm; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 0.57cm; text-align: left; direction: ltr; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: medium; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; box-sizing: border-box !important;">第五任新西兰福建同乡会会长，现任新西兰福建同乡会名誉会长，曾任新西兰福建同乡会创会秘书长，</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Arial, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 12pt; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; 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首先，担任协会主要领导职务的人需要摒弃想当官的心理。作为协会的领导，应该脚踏实地地把协会办好，而不是身兼数职。如果精力不足，就难以投入到协会的实际工作中，最终影响协会的发展。只要扎实地为协会做事，大家都会拥护和支持。
其次，避免做表面功夫和虚伪的行为。不要到处挖人、乱拉关系，也不要追求多个头衔。专注于协会的实际工作和目标，这样才能赢得会员的信任和支持。
总的来说，办好一个协会的关键在于领导者的专注和真诚。只有把精力投入到实际工作中，脚踏实地地推进协会的发展，才能取得真正的成功。
解决方案
1. 专注领导职责：协会领导应专注于协会的发展，不要追求多个头衔或职位，避免精力分散。
2. 扎实工作：投入足够的时间和精力，确保协会的实际工作得到落实。
3. 摒弃虚伪行为：避免做表面功夫，不要过于注重关系和名头，真正为协会成员和目标服务。
4. 建立信任：通过扎实的工作赢得会员的信任和支持，形成良好的团队氛围。
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